ﻛﻲ ﺗَﻜُﻮْﻥ ﺗَﺎﺟﺎً ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺭُﺅُﻭْﺱ ﺍﻟْﻨَّﺎﺱ
..ﺍﺳْﺘَﻤَﻊ ﺃَﻛْﺜَﺮ ﻣِﻦ ﺃَﻥ ﺗَﺘَﻜَﻠَّﻢ..
ﻓَﻜُﻠَّﻤَﺎ ﻛَﺜُﺮ ﻛَﻠَﺎﻡ ﺍﻟْﺈِﻧْﺴَﺎﻥ ﻛَﺎﻧَﺖ ﻫُﻨَﺎﻙ ﻓُﺮْﺻَﺔ ﻟِﻠْﺨَﻄَﺄ .
ﻭَﻟِﺬَﻟِﻚ ﺣَﺎﻭَﻝ ﺃَﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺻَﺎﻣِﺘْﺎ'
ﻗُﺪِّﺭ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺴْﺘَﻄَﺎﻉ،
ﻭَﺍﻟْﻨَّﺎﺱ ﺳَﻮْﻑ ﻳُﻔْﺘَﺮَﺿَﻮْﻥ ﺍﻧَّﻚ ﺃَﻛْﺜَﺮ ﺫَﻛَﺎﺀ ﻣِﻤَّﺎ ﺃَﻧْﺖ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪ ﺣَﻘِﻴْﻘَﺔ .
..ﺍﺣْﺘُﻔِﻆ ﺑِﺄَﺳْﺮَﺍﺭِﻙ ﺍﻟْﺨَﺎﺻَّﺔ..
ﻛُﻦ ﻣُﺤَﺎﻓِﻈﺎ' ﻋَﻠَﻰ
ﻣَﻌْﻠُﻮْﻣَﺎﺗِﻚ
ﺍﻟْﺸَّﺨْﺼِﻴَّﺔ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺠْﻌَﻞ ﺣَﻴَﺎﺗَﻚ ﻛِﺘَﺎﺑﺎ' ﻣَﻔْﺘُﻮْﺣَﺎ' .
ﻓَﺘَﻌُﺮْﻳَﺘﻚ ﻟِﻨَﻔْﺴِﻚ ﺗَﺠْﻌَﻞ ﺍﻟْﺂَﺧِﺮِﻳﻦ ﻳُﻘَﻠِّﻠُﻮﻥ ﻣِﻦ ﻓِﻜْﺮَﺗِﻬِﻢ ﻋَﻨْﻚ .
.. ﻟَﺎ ﺗُﻘَﻠِّﻞ ﻣِﻦ ﻣُﻨْﺠِﺰﺍﺗُﻚ
ﻓَﻌِﻨْﺪَﻣَﺎ ﺗَﻘُﻮْﻝ : ﺇِﻧَّﻨِﻲ ﻛُﻨْﺖ ﻣَﺤْﻈُﻮْﻇﺎ' ﻓَﺎﻥ ﺫَﻟِﻚ ﻳَﻔْﻘِﺪُﻙ ﺑَﻌْﻀﺎ' ﻣِﻦ ﻣَﻜَﺎﻧَﺘِﻚ ،
ﻭَﻛُﻦ ﻣُﺘَﻮَﺍﺿِﻌَﺎ' ﻭَﻟَﻜِﻦ ﻓِﻲ ﻓَﺨْﺮ .
ﻭَﻋِﻨْﺪَﻣَﺎ ﻳَﻘُﻮْﻝ ﺷَﺨْﺺ ﻣَﺎ ﻫَﺬَﺍ ﻋَﻈِﻴْﻢ ، ﻭَﺍﻓَﻘَﻪ ﺛُﻢ ﻗُﻞ : ﺷُﻜْﺮَﺍ' ،ﻟَﻘَﺪ ﻋَﻤِﻠْﺖ ﺑُﺠَﺪ .
.. ﺍﻋْﺘَﺮَﻑ ﺑِﺄَﺧْﻄﺎﺋِﻚ ﺑِﺴُﺮْﻋَﺔ ﻭَﻟَﺒَﺎﻗَﺔ ..
ﻓَﺎﻟَّﺬِﻳﻦ ﻳَﺘَﻈَﺎﻫَﺮُﻭْﻥ ﺑِﺄَﻧَّﻬُﻢ ﻋَﻠَﻰ
ﺣَﻖ ﺩَﻭْﻣَﺎ' ﻳَﻔْﻘِﺪُﻭﻥ ﺍﻻﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻡ،
ﻟِﺎﻥ ﺍﻟْﻨَّﺎﺱ ﺗَﺮَﺍﻫُﻢ ﻋَﻠَﻰ ﺃَﻧَّﻬُﻢ ﻣُﺨَﺎﺩِﻋُﻮْﻥ .
.. ﻟَﺎﺗُﻘَﻠِّﻞ ﻣِﻦ ﺷَﺄْﻧِﻚ..
ﻓَﺎﻹِﻧْﺴَﺎﻥ ﻳَﻔْﻘِﺪ ﺍﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻡ ﺍﻟْﺂَﺧَﺮِﻳْﻦ ﻋَﻨْﺪَﻣَﺎ ﻳُﻘَﻠِّﻞ ﻣِﻦ ﺷَﺎﻧِﻪ ﻭَﺗُﻮْﻗِﻒ ﻋَﻦ ﻗَﻮْﻝ ﺃَﺷْﻴَﺎﺀ ﻣِﺜْﻞ :
ﻫَﺬَﺍ ﻗَﺪ ﻳَﻜُﻮْﻥ ﺧَﻄَﺄ .
.. ﺍﺑْﺘَﻌَﺪ ﻋَﻦ ﺍﻻﻋْﺘِﺬَﺍﺭ ﺍﻟْﻤُﺘَﻜَﺮِّﺭَﺓ.
ﻓَﺎﻻﻋْﺘِﺬَﺍﺭﺑِﻤُﻨَﺎﺳَﺒَﺔ ﺃَﻣَﺮ ﺟَﻴِّﺪ ، ﻭَﻟَﻜِﻦ ﻟَﺎ ﺗُﺒَﺎﻟِﻎ ﻓِﻲ ﺫَﻟِﻚ . .
..ﻟَﺎ ﺗَﻜُﻦ ﻣِﻦ ﻣُﺤِﺒِّﻲ ﺍﻟْﺘَّﺄْﺛِﻴْﺮ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﺂَﺧِﺮِﻳﻦ..
ﻓَﻠَﻮ ﺣَﺎﻭَﻟْﺖ ﺟَﺎﻫِﺪﺍ' ﺃَﻥ ﺗُﺆَﺛِّﺮ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﺂَﺧِﺮِﻳﻦ ﻓَﺈِﻥ ﺍﻟْﻨَّﺎﺱ
ﺳَﻴَﺸْﻌُﺮُﻭْﻥ ﺑِﺬَﻟِﻚ ﻭَﺳَﺘَﻔْﻘِﺪﺍﻻﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻡ.
.. ﺧُﺬ ﺃَﻛْﺜَﺮ ﺍﻟْﻘَﺮَﺍﺭَﺍﺗﺒِﻨَﻔْﺴِﻚ..
ﻓَﺈِﻥ ﻋَﺎﺩَﺓ ﺍﻟْﺈِﻛْﺜَﺎﺭ ﻣِﻦ ﺳُﺆَﺍﻝ ﺍﻟْﻨَّﺎﺱ
ﻋَﻦ ﺭَﺃْﻳِﻬِﻢ ﻳَﻌْﻜِﺲ ﻋَﺪَﻡ ﺗَﺄَﻛَّﺪْﻙ ﻣِﻦ ﻗَﺮَﺍﺭِﻙ ﻭَﻫَﺬَﺍ ﻳُﻘَﻠِّﻞ ﻣِﻦ ﺍﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻣِﻬِﻢ ﻟَﻚ .
.. ﺩَﺍﺋِﻤَﺎ' ﻗَﺪْﺭ ﻗِﻴَﻤَﺔﺍﻟْﻮَﻗْﺖ..
ﻓَﺎﻟَّﺬِﻳﻦ ﻳَﺘَﺴَﻜَّﻌُﻮﻥ ﻭَﻳُﻀَﻴِّﻌُﻮْﻥ ﻭَﻗْﺘَﻬُﻢ ﻳَﻔْﻘِﺪُﻭﻥ ﺍﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻣﺎﻟْﺂَﺧِﺮِﻳﻦ.
..ﺍﺣْﺘُﻔِﻆ ﺑِﻬُﺪُﻭْﺋِﻚ ..
ﻓَﺎﻟَّﺬِﻳﻦ ﻳَﻨْﻔَﻌِﻠُﻮْﻥ ﻛَﺜِﻴْﺮﺍ' ﺑِﻌَﻮﺍﻃُﻔَﻬُﻢ ﻳَﻔْﻘِﺪُﻭﻥ ﺍﻻﺣْﺘِﺮَﺍﻡ..}